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Posted on Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011

Here are a few things I have noticed about my dogs, Belle and Tink.

Tink likes to sleep on my head and Belle likes to sleep at my feet.

They both like to roll on dead things-don’t know why but it works for them.

If my assistant Bonnie continues to greet them in a high voice, I will need to re-mortgage the house to pay for the carpet cleaner.

If we ever have guests over who don’t like dogs, they will both want to crawl all over them.

They prefer In-N-Out burgers to dog food…me too.

They are fiercely loyal, forgiving and full of grace.

Life works better for them when they are held…

Tink is pretty mellow but Belle can get anxious. I discovered recently that if I hold her tightly for a while her heart beat slows down a bit and she settles. I wonder what it is about being held that makes such a difference? It was the same with Christian when he was a baby. He loved to be wrapped up tight and held close to my heart, connected, not alone, safe, held.

To be held requires trust. No one wants to be held by someone whose heart they question.
Some of us were so wounded as children that now it’s hard to be held…but underneath part of us still longs for it.

So today I’m going to hold my son for a few seconds more than he says he wants and I’m going to hold my husband, even if he didn’t put the seat back down:)

And when I’m on the road somewhere and I feel anxious or alone I’m going to stop and remember that the God who holds the universe in place is holding me too, close to His heart, safe, not alone, held.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1320237055 Annette Vacval Filpi

    Shelia, thanks for the timely words.  Our 11 year old Lab went to heaven yesterday. The void of that loss is huge. Dogs offer a glimpse of Unconditional Love of our Father!  What a blessing.  These are beautiful pups, snuggle them close whenever you can……:(

  • Anonymous

    So true! I definitely have a hard time with being held or kissed. There are times when I just want my mom to hug me and it’s not possible because she’s so far away. This is a good reminder to hug someone too. Sometimes, that’s what we really need!

    Blessings,
    Mel
    Please feel free to stop by: Trailing After God

  • Anonymous

    BTW, I LOVE your dogs! They are absolutely adorable!

  • http://www.sheilawalsh.com Sheila Walsh

    thanks-they are so sweet!

  • http://www.sheilawalsh.com Sheila Walsh

    so so sorry for your loss!

  • http://twitter.com/KaylaRPrior Kayla R. Prior

    Sheila, 
    You are totally right about being held. Three years ago I lost my mom, and the thing I miss most is being held be her!!! Feeling safe and loved! Thank you so much for sharing with us!! Those dogs are adorable.

  • Amy Brown

    wow … how true is it that we resist being held by someone who we don’t believe is going to take care of us … so hard to overcome when hurt was the norm! Thank you for your encouraging words

  • http://twitter.com/theanecdotalguy John Fox

    we too have a male and female Bichon and they are now 11.  They have seen us threw the deaths of our parents and siblings, they have waited by the door for us to come home and have been our traveling companions in boats and cars. They have never complained as they only wanted to share in the fun or give us needed comfort, depending on the circumstances. My female, Dollie, is laying on her back at my feet even as I type. 
    Your words are true as any dog owner knows and the lessons learned from our little guys are true as well. 

  • http://www.sheilawalsh.com Sheila Walsh

    Such sweet dogs

  • http://www.sheilawalsh.com Sheila Walsh

    that’s so true Amy

  • http://www.facebook.com/elsie.schuettflynn Elsie Schuett Flynn

    God shows us in so many ways how we are to love; dogs, in my opinion, are one of  His best methods to demonstrate unconditional love and “forgive-and-forget” total forgiveness.

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